Marriage..... the sexless institution.
Ok, I wish I had more time. In fact I wish I had an audio channel to feed this out on because no matter how efficiently I type I could never rant about this enough. I personally am disgusted with how women (not all the time but in the majority) use sex as a weapon in a relationship. (Usually a marriage.) If you want to hang with your guy friends for an evening of gaming or sports that means you wont get 'any' for a week. If you dont do the dishes, you're cut off for 2 days. I could go on with the crime vs. punishment quantities but since milage may vary in other relationships.
I personally made a vow to myself AND my wife that I would be faithful to her but I truly can understand why so many men go out hunting for new 'strange'. I do not condone it but I can at least sympathize with them on the reasoning. Women use it as a threat so much, or just flat out refuse to be romantically sociable to their spouses that men get tired of hearing it. They also get tired of asking and being told no. They get tired of refusal over and over and over again and again and again. Pshaw, that brings me to point number 2.
Why, when you DO decide to grace us with your sexual presence (or at least your physical presense, cant really say you're really "there".) does it seem like you'd rather be watching paint dry? Is it such a chore to love your husbands that YOU "love" so much and decided to marry? I do not mean 5-7 times a week but please its not like 1 time a week is that horrible to at least 'act' like you want it.
My wife doesnt really look miserable during sex, actually I think she does enjoy herself but boy she sure is romantic about asking. "Wanna have sex?" Which on one hand is great to hear, knowing I didnt have to initiate or plea for it but after a while .. .. c'mon... ... .. Let's mix it up a little, at least use different terminology..
All for now, must move along to real life for a bit..... please post if you agree, all flames will be directed to /dev/null and whining to /dev/pillow.
I personally made a vow to myself AND my wife that I would be faithful to her but I truly can understand why so many men go out hunting for new 'strange'. I do not condone it but I can at least sympathize with them on the reasoning. Women use it as a threat so much, or just flat out refuse to be romantically sociable to their spouses that men get tired of hearing it. They also get tired of asking and being told no. They get tired of refusal over and over and over again and again and again. Pshaw, that brings me to point number 2.
Why, when you DO decide to grace us with your sexual presence (or at least your physical presense, cant really say you're really "there".) does it seem like you'd rather be watching paint dry? Is it such a chore to love your husbands that YOU "love" so much and decided to marry? I do not mean 5-7 times a week but please its not like 1 time a week is that horrible to at least 'act' like you want it.
My wife doesnt really look miserable during sex, actually I think she does enjoy herself but boy she sure is romantic about asking. "Wanna have sex?" Which on one hand is great to hear, knowing I didnt have to initiate or plea for it but after a while .. .. c'mon... ... .. Let's mix it up a little, at least use different terminology..
All for now, must move along to real life for a bit..... please post if you agree, all flames will be directed to /dev/null and whining to /dev/pillow.
posted by Fire Tongue at 6:52 AM
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